Thursday, July 1, 2010

Introducing...

Introducing Parker Kayde Simon
Weight: 8 lbs. 10 oz.
Length: 21 inches
Cuteness scale (1-10): 100 +!!!
Birthday: June 24, 2010
Birth Time: 8:55pm

Well, as most know, I was induced on June 24th. I was told to call at 6:30am that morning to see when I could come in. Let me ask a question here: how on earth is a woman supposed to sleep the night before she knows she's going to have a baby?!? Strangest feeling ever. So, unfortunately I only got a few hours of sleep and woke up at 4am SO excited that I just couldn't sleep a minute longer! The minute it turned 6:30 I called and they said, "Well, were kinda busy so call back at 7:30. We might not be able to get you in until 11.". WHAT?! I wasn't supposed to eat or drink starting at midnight the night before, so I was starving and ANXIOUS to the max! I made it to 7:30 and called. They said to come on in!! So, I went and jumped on the bed to wake Darrin up and tell him it was time to go to the hospital!!! I had been waiting oh so long to say those words :)!

They started the pitocin at 9:30 am and turned it up about every half hour. It brought my contractions closer together but they stayed about as painful as I had been having for the last 7 weeks. My OB came in at 12:30 pm to break my water. Wow-that was quite an interesting experience:).

They gave me the option of getting the epideral before they broke my water. I said no because I really wanted to go through some of labor and do as much as I could without the epideral. So, I went on. Once they broke my water things got pretty dang intense! The nurse told us that I was having what they call "piggy back contractions" meaning that it would go contraction, contraction, break...contraction, contraction, break...etc. This was an indicator that he was faced posterior. Posterior meaning that is head was faced toward the front rather than the back. She said that the posterior position is no good and we needed to get him turned. So, she suggested that I get up and walk, sway, and move as much as I could to see if he would turn.

So, I did just that. Darrin was right along side me helping me through these contractions that were unbelievably painful. I made it two hours before I just couldn't take it anymore. The anisthesiologist was in a c-section when I wanted the epideral. Figures. They offered to give me pain meds through my IV but I really didn't want to be foggy in my head from those. I just wanted to be numbed. So I said no to those drugs. In the end, it was 3 hours until I got my epideral. Can I just say "WAY TO GO!!" to all those brave women out there who go all natural?! WOW.

The first time they did the epideral it only numbed my left side. Which does absolutely no good (besides me not being able to move my left leg whatsoever :)). So, they had to re-do the epideral. This time it worked. What a difference! It was INCREDIBLE!!! I could hardly feel a thing...it was heavenly.

Things progressed quickly after I got the epideral. I went from a 5 1/2 to a 10 within 2 and a half hours. But by the time I was about a nine, I started to regain feeling- I had what they called a "hot spot" where the epideral was no longer working and so I became extremely uncomfortable. They had to re-inject the epideral medicine three more times before I became numb enough to push but I could still feel quite a bit.

Parker was still posterior and I had been at a 10 for over two hours trying to get the epideral to work again. Well, my doctor said that most posterior babies end up coming c-section because they're too hard to get out. But I wanted to give it my best. An hour and 15 minutes later of pushing, little Parker arrived!!! The doc said if he was facing the right direction that he would have been out in 10 minutes for me :(. BUT, nonetheless he is here!! YAY!!!! So amazing.

Then came a whole other adventure. He took about 3 minutes to take a breath. SO terrifying for me who was just watching them shake him and try to get him to breath for what seemed like an eternity! But he FINALLY cried the tiniest cry I've ever heard. He had a fever and was breathing fast so they gave me about 5 minutes with him and then whisked him away. Fortunately, Darrin was able to stay with Parker while he was brought to the nursery for further tests. I can't explain the feelings and emotions I went through at this time. I had him at 8:55pm and didn't get to see him again until 12:45am. But his fever went down and by about 1:00am his breathing was back to normal. What a miracle!

I was FINALLY able to feed him for the first time at 1:30am. It has been an incredible, miraculous journey. He is my angel. I can't explain my emotions that go through me when I look at him and think of where he just came from. When I think of how blessed I am to have this tiny, perfect human being in my arms I can't help but cry a river of joy. Wow. God loves us.

Darrin is SUCH a good and proud daddy. I love to watch him with Parker. I love my boys so much! Darrin was also so great during all of labor-there for me every single step of the way. Thank you sweetheart!

I also had the privelege of having my three sisters and mom there for the labor and birth. They were such a great support team and I love that I was able to share the experience with them!

I am full of joy! Full of gratitude, wonderment and amazement! I am loving life! It's amazing how sleep deprived and sick (yes, I got a cold the day after I gave birth) I can be but yet be so happy.

Sorry the pictures are in backwords order so you'll have to look from bottom to top:















6 comments:

The Paytons said...

Wow our birthing expreinces have a lot of similarities! Luke was also posterior, and my epidural only worked on one side and also wore off for a couple hours when I was a 9. But anyway I am so excited for you and I bet you are the best momma ever! Enjoy this time it goes by soo soo fast!

Patricia Potts said...

Trisha, I have loved spending a few days with you after Parker was born. I love being with you. Parker is such a sweetheart. Even when he got terrible hiccups he didn't fuss. You are the cutest mom too! I love hearing you talk to your "little man"

Heidi Hamilton said...

What a sweet account. I LOVE that you've now entered the mommy club! It's a wild ride, but what an adventure! You did such an amazing job, Trisha & Parker is SO SO blessed to have you as his mama.
Love you!

ann said...

You are amazing! I am so glad he is finally here. He is sure cute!

Kelly Jean said...

Oh Trish, he is absolutely darling!!! I am so incredibly happy for you!!! Way to go YOU for giving birth to a perfect little boy! You're amazing! You deserve every bit of happiness & miracles that life has to offer! Love you girl!!

The Fam! said...

Congratulations you two!! This is sooooooo exciting, I'm so happy for you. He's sooo precious, I cant wait to see him. I'm so glad you and the baby are doing fine now Trisha!